{"id":144040,"date":"2023-12-07T05:48:36","date_gmt":"2023-12-07T05:48:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/?p=144040"},"modified":"2023-12-07T05:48:36","modified_gmt":"2023-12-07T05:48:36","slug":"i-went-on-three-dates-with-a-man-and-he-dumped-me-because-i-wasnt-fit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/lifestyle\/i-went-on-three-dates-with-a-man-and-he-dumped-me-because-i-wasnt-fit\/","title":{"rendered":"I went on three dates with a man and he dumped me because I wasn&apos;t fit"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1> I went on three dates with a man &#8211; then he DUMPED ME and told me to go to the gym because I wasn&#8217;t fit enough for him<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><span>A woman shared the astounding text she was sent from a man she&#8217;d been dating<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>He said he wasn&#8217;t physically attracted to her, but told her &#8216;grind for six months&#8217;\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span>The man said fitness was important and he wanted his partner to be the same<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>You&#8217;ve got to kiss a few frogs to find a prince, but this one has requested that a woman hit the gym before he committed.<\/p>\n<p>In a more than two-minute-long clip, a woman, who doesn&#8217;t reveal her name,\u00a0explained she had been on three dates with a man when he sent her a shocking message, which addressed some of the issues he had been having.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Today I received a crazy text from a guy I went on three Hinge dates with,&#8217; she began.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She then shared lengthy text, with her friend reading it out loud for the video.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I mostly want to preface by saying how much I&#8217;ve enjoyed talking to you and seeing you the last couple of weeks,&#8217; the message started off.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/06\/22\/78662989-12834315-A_woman_pictured_center_had_been_on_three_dates_with_the_man_whe-a-16_1701902709236.jpg\" height=\"478\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>A woman (pictured center) had been on three dates with the man when he sent her a message telling her he wasn&#8217;t that physically attracted to her\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/06\/21\/78662973-12834315-image-a-30_1701897243019.jpg\" height=\"1127\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>She shared the text message in a video posted to social media, saying he enjoys spending time with her &#8211; with a caveat<\/p>\n<p>Adding he thinks the woman is &#8216;gorgeous and beautiful,&#8217; and he wants to &#8216;stare at her smile&#8217; all day long, he then described her as &#8216;perfectly goofy&#8217; and not taking herself &#8216;too seriously.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;You&#8217;re so caring and\u00a0 have a lot of love and energy to give and I can see that every day,&#8217; he continued.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I could tell right away we had similarities and I love how you pointed out that your parents are so in love and it seems like you wanted to have the same kind of love as them.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>However, the niceties stopped there and the man divulged his true feelings, saying it was &#8216;tough to have a really good physical connection&#8217; that &#8216;matches everything else.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I know it sounds terrible to say [but] I have to be honest because my life revolves around staying fit,&#8217; the shocking message read.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;That&#8217;s just who I am and something I&#8217;ve been thinking about since Friday, and the right way to say this and the right way to say this that makes you understand how much I appreciate you.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I don&#8217;t even want to say this and I&#8217;m dreading sending it cuz I truly don&#8217;t want you out of my life but right now is just not the right time.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Even with that said, I would love it it you reached out at some point in the future and I could very easily see if you grinded harder for 6 months or a year in the future or whatever it is I honestly think I would marry you.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/07\/01\/78662977-12834315-However_the_niceties_stopped_and_the_man_divulged_his_true_feeli-a-27_1701912375139.jpg\" height=\"1046\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>However, the niceties stopped and the man divulged his true feelings, saying it was &#8216;tough to have a really good physical connection&#8217; that &#8216;matches everything else&#8217;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/07\/01\/78662969-12834315-The_woman_re_read_the_message_out_with_her_friends_who_were_all_-a-26_1701912375137.jpg\" height=\"577\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The woman re-read the message out with her friends, who were all in hysterics over the message<\/p>\n<p>The woman and her friend burst into laughter when the message was ended.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I did cry a lot after receiving this, being told I am too fat\u00a0by this guy,&#8217; she admitted.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;So I&#8217;m going to lose 20 pounds and I&#8217;ll see him and we&#8217;re gonna get married,&#8217; she joked through laughter.<\/p>\n<p>She then said she wasn&#8217;t planning on responding to the text, but had brainstormed some ideas with her friends.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;We were gonna say, &#8220;if you paid for liposuction could we get married faster?&#8221;&#8216; she added sarcastically.<\/p>\n<p>The shocking tale was shared on an unknown account before being reposted on X, previously known as Twitter.<span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>The video was first posted on Catch Up&#8217;s page, but has been reposted by journalist Ian Miles Cheong, where it had has had more than 4.5 million views.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;A woman receives a text from a man she&#8217;s been on three dates with saying she&#8217;s too fat but that he would love for her to come back after six months of grinding at the gym,&#8217; he captioned the post, which spurred thousands of comments.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/07\/01\/78662961-12834315-image-a-28_1701912375525.jpg\" height=\"105\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/07\/01\/78662963-12834315-image-a-29_1701912375541.jpg\" height=\"126\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/07\/01\/78662983-12834315-image-a-30_1701912375544.jpg\" height=\"145\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/07\/01\/78662993-12834315-image-a-31_1701912375553.jpg\" height=\"105\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/12\/07\/01\/78662985-12834315-There_were_mixed_responses_to_the_video_with_some_writing_there_-a-32_1701912375556.jpg\" height=\"100\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>There were mixed responses to the video, with some writing there&#8217;s nothing wrong with setting standards when dating\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Some users responded agreeing with the man, writing there is nothing wrong with him setting standards for what he&#8217;s looking for in a partner.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;What&#8217;s wrong with a dude who has standards,&#8217; one bluntly responded.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Everyone here knows we have a standard that we expect from our spouse or future spouse. For him, weight is a considerable thing&#8230;. he&#8217;s not in the wrong full stop,&#8217; they wrote.<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;I&#8217;m terrible with people and I wouldn&#8217;t even have worded it that way. Though, I can understand feeling a connection to someone but can&#8217;t get over the physical aspect because they don&#8217;t take care of themselves. At least he&#8217;s being honest,&#8217; another person wrote.<\/p>\n<p>Others were appalled by the text message.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Everything sounded very polite and empathetic till he said &#8220;grind for 6 months and get back to me,&#8221;&#8216; one user wrote.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8216;Honesty is the best policy. But. 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