{"id":142678,"date":"2023-10-26T18:04:43","date_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:04:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/?p=142678"},"modified":"2023-10-26T18:04:43","modified_gmt":"2023-10-26T18:04:43","slug":"my-lover-convinced-me-that-i-was-all-he-wanted-but-it-was-all-a-lie-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/lifestyle\/my-lover-convinced-me-that-i-was-all-he-wanted-but-it-was-all-a-lie-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My lover convinced me that I was all he wanted – but it was all a lie… | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: MY lover told me I was all he wanted and that he was ready for us to build a future together \u2014 but it turns out it was all a lie.<\/p>\n

I knew \u00a0it was never going to be easy, we were both married after all, but I never expected him to cut me off like this.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I\u2019m 39, he\u2019s 40 and we met at work five years ago.<\/p>\n

For the first two years our relationship was platonic. It was only after he left for another job that we grew closer.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Our marriages were breaking down and we found ourselves confiding in each other for support.<\/p>\n

The love between us grew stronger and stronger until we couldn\u2019t fight it any more.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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As soon as we slept together neither of us could stay away. I spent every waking moment thinking of him when we were apart.\u00a0<\/p>\n

We fell head over heels for each other and I honestly believed we had something real\u2009.\u2009.\u2009.\u2009until the day our spouses found out.\u00a0 <\/p>\n

His wife had grown suspicious and searched his phone. When she found the evidence of our affair she sent screenshots to my husband.<\/p>\n

I felt awful for what I\u2019d done and broke things off with my husband. I expected my lover to leave his wife, but to my surprise when I went to text him I discovered he had blocked me on everything.<\/p>\n

Since then I\u2019ve heard nothing from him. I\u2019m heartbroken and I can\u2019t understand why he would do this.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I\u2019m so confused.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Your lover may have been telling the truth about wanting to leave his wife, but that doesn\u2019t mean when push came to shove he was ready or willing to do it.<\/p>\n

The reality of uprooting your whole life is entirely different from romantic notions of new passions and excitement.\u00a0<\/p>\n

He may have decided to try to work at his marriage and his wife could well have stipulated that he is banned from contacting you.<\/p>\n

Being cut out of his life so abruptly will be deeply hurtful so take your time to grieve for the future you thought you might share.\u00a0<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s also best to accept that the relationship is over and focus your sights on moving on.\u00a0That way you can create a space in your life for someone who is completely willing and available for you.<\/p>\n

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