{"id":142246,"date":"2023-10-11T11:03:36","date_gmt":"2023-10-11T11:03:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/?p=142246"},"modified":"2023-10-11T11:03:36","modified_gmt":"2023-10-11T11:03:36","slug":"my-adult-son-refuses-to-pay-his-share-of-the-bills-while-on-holiday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/lifestyle\/my-adult-son-refuses-to-pay-his-share-of-the-bills-while-on-holiday\/","title":{"rendered":"My adult son refuses to pay his share of the bills while on holiday"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>My adults son still lives at home and refuses to pay his share of the bills while he&#8217;s away on holiday &#8211; and I do his cooking and cleaning too<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The British mother shared that money was &#8216;pretty tight&#8217; for the household<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>The man&#8217;s to younger siblings have to share a room\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE:\u00a0\u00a0Mother sparks debate after allowing her teenage daughter to wear false eyelashes to school<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Parents have been left shocked after a man still living with his mother would not pay rent while he was away.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The disgrunlted woman took to the British parenting forum Mumsnet to ask users whether she was wrong for expecting her son to pay rent whilst he was on holiday.<\/p>\n<p>The mother explained her son &#8211; who is in his late twenties &#8211; felt like he did not have to pay his lodgings while he was away visiting other relatives for the week.<\/p>\n<p>Fellow parents were left stunned by how selfish the young man was being, with some going as far as to brand him a &#8216;cheeky s**t&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/10\/76418217-12618091-image-a-9_1697016347256.jpg\" height=\"423\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>The anonymous woman aired her frustrations regarding son &#8211; who is in his late twenties &#8211; refusing to contribute towards bills while was away with other relatives (stock image)<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420871-12618091-image-a-10_1697020411236.jpg\" height=\"199\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420879-12618091-A_woman_took_to_the_British_parenting_forum_for_advice_on_how_to-a-11_1697020416359.jpg\" height=\"120\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>A woman took to the British parenting forum for advice on how to handle her adult son who lives at home, but doesn&#8217;t want to pay his way\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>On the forum, the mother explained that her older son still lives with her, her partner and their two children.<\/p>\n<p>The man, who is approaching his thirties, makes weekly contributions to the household bills because money is currently &#8216;pretty tight&#8217; for the family.<\/p>\n<p>However, the mother-of-three was left shocked after her son revealed he would not be paying his share of the bills while he was staying with other relatives for a week.<\/p>\n<p>She added: &#8216;He&#8217;s suddenly sprung this on us and as he now won&#8217;t expect to pay his contribution next week, that&#8217;s money we will now have to find.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>The woman thinks it is unreasonable for her son not to contribute simply because he is on holiday.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She divulged that her son still has his lunches and evening meals made for him,and she does his laundry too.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>His two younger siblings also have to share a room because the eldest son is still living and being financially supported at home.<\/p>\n<p>Many parents took to the comments in support of the anonymous mother, pointing out her home is not a &#8216;hotel&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>One person wrote:\u00a0&#8216;You don&#8217;t stop paying rent because you&#8217;re on a weeks holiday. So he still needs to pay.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Whilst another quipped:\u00a0\u00a0&#8216;Of course he should still pay. I don&#8217;t stop paying my rent or mortgage when I go on holiday.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>An adamant user stated: &#8216;He can go where he wants, when he wants. He still pays. That&#8217;s how life works.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Some even suggested it was time for the woman&#8217;s fully grown child to move out of the home.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420893-12618091-image-a-12_1697020424801.jpg\" height=\"77\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420889-12618091-image-a-13_1697020426466.jpg\" height=\"71\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420881-12618091-image-a-14_1697020428053.jpg\" height=\"70\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420877-12618091-image-a-15_1697020431175.jpg\" height=\"49\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420873-12618091-image-a-16_1697020432527.jpg\" height=\"69\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420865-12618091-image-a-17_1697020434136.jpg\" height=\"68\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420863-12618091-image-m-21_1697020447296.jpg\" height=\"66\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76421095-12618091-image-a-19_1697020439052.jpg\" height=\"38\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/11\/11\/76420883-12618091-People_flooded_the_comments_backing_the_mother_with_many_noting_-a-20_1697020441016.jpg\" height=\"55\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>People flooded the comments backing the mother, with many noting he could not refuse to pay rent if he was living alone<\/p>\n<p>However, not everyone was completely behind the mother&#8217;s request, with one person recommending: &#8216;A small reduction if you can afford it perhaps, but there&#8217;s nothing wrong with expecting him to pay as normal.&#8217;\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Others were concerned the household was relying to heavily on the son&#8217;s finances, with another parent saying: &#8216;I would make him pay still but I do think it is a bit difficult relying so much on his money. What will you do if he moves out?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>One person continued: &#8216;I agree he should pay his way &#8211; and do more around the house &#8211; but it also seems like you&#8217;re relying far too heavily on his money.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>But not everyone was against the man in his late twenties, with one user adding: &#8216;He&#8217;s not costing you anything extra whilst he&#8217;s away for a week.&#8217;\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12618091\/My-son-late-20s-lives-home-refuses-pay-share-bills-hes-away-holiday-cooking-cleaning-too.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My adults son still lives at home and refuses to pay his share of the bills while he&#8217;s away on holiday &#8211; and I do his cooking and cleaning too The British mother shared that money was &#8216;pretty tight&#8217; for the household The man&#8217;s to younger siblings have to share a room\u00a0\u00a0 READ MORE:\u00a0\u00a0Mother sparks [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":142245,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>My adult son refuses to pay his share of the bills while on holiday - Celebrity-hub<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/lifestyle\/my-adult-son-refuses-to-pay-his-share-of-the-bills-while-on-holiday\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"My adult son refuses to pay his share of the bills while on holiday - Celebrity-hub\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"My adults son still lives at home and refuses to pay his share of the bills while he&#8217;s away on holiday &#8211; 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