{"id":142090,"date":"2023-10-06T17:24:31","date_gmt":"2023-10-06T17:24:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/?p=142090"},"modified":"2023-10-06T17:24:31","modified_gmt":"2023-10-06T17:24:31","slug":"i-feel-like-a-failure-after-losing-my-job-and-moving-back-in-with-my-parents-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/lifestyle\/i-feel-like-a-failure-after-losing-my-job-and-moving-back-in-with-my-parents-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I feel like a failure after losing my job and moving back in with my parents | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER losing my dream job, I\u2019ve had to move back in with my parents.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I feel like a failure and I miss having my own home in a city I loved.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I\u2019m a 22-year-old man. My ambition was to become a paramedic and I was so excited to start work.<\/p>\n

But it soon became obvious I couldn\u2019t hack the pressure of the job. <\/p>\n

Self-esteem has always been an issue for me, and I simply didn\u2019t have enough confidence to make fast, important decisions.<\/p>\n

I ended up quitting before I was sacked.\u00a0<\/p>\n

I was devastated. Without a steady job, I couldn\u2019t afford to stay in Leeds, the city I had settled in. I had to move back home to Surrey.<\/p>\n

My family are supportive and understanding, and welcomed me back. But I am miserable. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n

How can I pick myself up and start again?<\/p>\n

Get in touch with the Dear Deidre team<\/h3>\n

Every problem gets a personal reply from one of our trained counsellors.<\/p>\n

Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you.<\/p>\n

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.<\/p>\n

DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Returning home after living independently is never easy. Try to see it as being a temporary arrangement rather than a step backwards.<\/p>\n

Your self-esteem has taken another battering. But it is possible to build on this by taking small steps initially. My support pack Raising Self-esteem should help.\u00a0<\/p>\n

The charity Mind (mind.org.uk) also has useful information on low self-esteem.<\/p>\n

Realising your dream job wasn\u2019t suitable must have been a blow. But you clearly have lots of useful skills.<\/p>\n

While you think about what to do, consider volunteering somewhere.\u00a0<\/p>\n

See moving back to Leeds and being independent again as a goal for the future.<\/p>\n

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