{"id":141152,"date":"2023-09-11T19:02:21","date_gmt":"2023-09-11T19:02:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/?p=141152"},"modified":"2023-09-11T19:02:21","modified_gmt":"2023-09-11T19:02:21","slug":"less-than-a-year-into-our-marriage-and-im-started-to-see-this-woman-isnt-for-me-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/lifestyle\/less-than-a-year-into-our-marriage-and-im-started-to-see-this-woman-isnt-for-me-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"Less than a year into our marriage and I'm started to see this woman isn't for me | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
DEAR DEIDRE: I DON\u2019T see the point in my wife. I may have to find somebody else because she won\u2019t do anything for me.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m a man of 42 and met her when I was in hospital. <\/p>\n
She\u2019s 40 and a nurse, and had never been married before. Neither had I.<\/p>\n
I went to boarding school and my parents worked abroad. I\u2019d lived alone since age 22.<\/p>\n
After taking my now wife out for dinner a few times, I asked her to marry me.<\/p>\n
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We married at Christmas but since then things haven\u2019t been good. I thought a wife would look after me, cook and clean. <\/p>\n
I\u2019d provide for her financially and she could give up work. But my wife does none of this. <\/p>\n
She works shifts, and when she comes home she\u2019s tired. Our sex life is zero. Married life is awful.<\/p>\n
DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span> You may think so, but you\u2019ve never witnessed what a true relationship is like. <\/p>\n It should be a partnership with somebody you love, where you enjoy doing things together, and for each other.<\/p>\n Your expectations sound very one-sided. What do you think your wife hoped for?<\/p>\n You should have married your wife for love, not to gain a member of staff.<\/p>\n You need some counselling to talk about your assumptions and compromises. <\/p>\n Contact Tavistock Relationships (tavistockrelationships.org, 020 7380 1975).<\/p>\nMORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/span><\/h2>\n
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Lydia and her partner decide to go on a break after constant arguing<\/h3>\n
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I avoid being photographed because my wonky smile is making me miserable<\/h3>\n