{"id":140972,"date":"2023-09-07T11:45:23","date_gmt":"2023-09-07T11:45:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/?p=140972"},"modified":"2023-09-07T11:45:23","modified_gmt":"2023-09-07T11:45:23","slug":"im-mum-shamed-for-putting-my-two-month-old-into-nursery-but-i-dont-feel-guilty-i-feel-free-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebrity-hub.com\/fashion\/im-mum-shamed-for-putting-my-two-month-old-into-nursery-but-i-dont-feel-guilty-i-feel-free-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m mum-shamed for putting my two-month old into nursery but I don\u2019t feel guilty – I feel free | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
A WOMAN who was mum-shamed for putting her two-month-old baby into nursery has insisted she doesn't feel guilty about her decision. <\/p>\n
Nika caused controversy with a video of her dropping her tot off at the childcare centre, and appeared – in that clip – to be finding the transition difficult. <\/p>\n
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"It's still not too late to go back, we can turn around," she said to her other half while cradling her daughter close. <\/p>\n
She was then shown handing over the baby to the nursery worker, before apparently struggling to control her emotions as she muttered to her husband: "Let's just go, let's just go".<\/p>\n
In the next TikTok, her husband asked her how she felt after dropping their baby off.<\/p>\n
"So, you just dropped your second baby off at daycare, and this is way earlier than before, at her age, how do you feel girl?" he said. <\/p>\n
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Nika was seen with her head down and appeared to be pondering something as she suddenly looked up, grinned and said: "We're free!"<\/p>\n
"Yeah!" her husband exclaimed, before Nika said: "Wanna go have breakfast?"<\/p>\n
"Let's go have some breakfast. Feeling good? Let's do it," he replied. <\/p>\n
In the caption for that video, Nika addressed some of the rude comments she'd received for starting her baby's nursery journey so early.<\/p>\n
<\/picture>MYSTIC MEG <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/picture>BIGGER BUT HAPPIER <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/picture>BITE BACK <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n <\/picture>GORG GAL <\/span><\/p>\n <\/span><\/p>\n "Got alot of hate on my last video for leaving my 2 month old at daycare so I could go back to work and have extra time to get things done that would be difficult with a newborn," she wrote. <\/p>\n "Instead of replying to any of the negativity, I\u2019ll stand with the other mamas that make the difficult choice to leave their littles at daycare with people they trust. <\/p>\n "And God forbid, we burnt out mamas feel some relief am i right?!<\/p>\n "P.S. My husband took me out for our first breakfast date in FOREVER before diving into work and it felt AMAZING!<\/p>\n "I was able to eat with BOTH HANDS YA\u2019LL! <\/p>\n "As you can see in this video, I was waiting for the grief to sink in like it did with my toddler but this time\u2026 I just felt freedom.<\/p>\n "Freedom to do what I need to do to keep my family and babies happy, healthy, and whole. <\/p>\n "So if that upsets you, maybe I\u2019m not the page for you. Because here, you won\u2019t find judgement.<\/p>\n "Here, you\u2019ll find a safe space to be whatever and whoever you need to be to be the best mama for your sweet babies."<\/p>\n Nika did address one of the troll comments she'd received in another video though. <\/p>\n "Your a horrible mother," the comment read. <\/p>\n "Nobody, nof**kingbody drops 2-month-old baby in nursery. Don't be a mother please."<\/p>\n "You guys, I didn't want to have to call this out but I am shocked, nay, dismayed," Nika hilariously began. <\/p>\n "If you're gonna comment something like this on my page, use the correct grammar.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n "It's YOU'RE!"<\/p>\n Nika lives in America, where maternity leave is typically 12 weeks, but can be as short as 6 weeks. <\/p>\nThe moon and Jupiter create a career situation where second best won\u2019t do<\/h3>\n
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