Like all the Real Housewives franchises, the Real Housewives of Orange County is known for its drama — especially relationship drama. A reliable contributor to this drama has been Slade Smiley, who came on board the show as one woman’s fiancé and made his way through a number of relationships on the show before settling down.
Smiley’s time on the show may have been dramatic, but his introduction to the small-screen was surprisingly simple and not quite as expensive as you might expect.
Slade Smiley started out as an ‘RHOC’ villain
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You won’t believe this but this was our First Date night (just Slade & I) since Skylar was born 🙈🤪 Yes it’s crazy to think we haven’t had a moment to ourselves, but between adjusting to being new parents together, work life, and just being utterly exhausted 24/7 , we realized Holy Crapoly we had not had one date night together! 💫 My sweet brother @ethanforward came over to watch Sky. We made a later reservation so we could still do her whole bedtime routine and put her to bed, which was important to us. But then we finally got to go out and enjoy ourselves and reconnect! 💫 In one of the videos you will see how much fun we had and how Slade still makes me laugh all these years later (11yrs) & how we just enjoy being silly and being together! It was a wonderful way to just talk, & reconnect with no distractions. 💫 These things are so very important to do with our partners, but sometimes life gets the best of us and we get to busy to take time to dress up and just be together. So I’m soo glad we finally got to do it! 💫 We dined at one of our favorite restaurants @anqibistro that pulled out all the stops to help us feel safe and comfortable while dining out in public, (watch my stories for all their high tech protocol now!) So Thank you to @anqibistro and the staff for helping make our night so memorable 🙏🏻swipe left 👈🏻 #datenightyyc
It’s been fifteen years since Smiley first made an appearance on RHOC, and during those years he has managed to place himself at the center of plenty of drama. Starcasm reports that when he made his debut, it was as Jo De La Rosa’s fiancé. Their relationship didn’t survive, but Smiley stayed on as De La Rosa’s manager, helping her in her attempt to launch a music career.
As that relationship fizzled, Smiley went on to dabble in an entanglement with another woman on the show, Lauri Waring Peterson. This relationship never seemed to get very serious, and it quickly ran its course.
The next Real Housewife Smiley was involved with turned out to be a lasting presence in his life. Gretchen Rossi was introduced to the show because Smiley and De La Rosa recommended her to producers. De La Rosa may have come to regret that recommendation, because she admits that she held out hope for her relationship with Smiley for a long time, only letting go when he started dating Rossi.
How he got his spot
Smiley’s behavior on the show has made him look pretty bad at times, as he moved from woman to woman. But the way he landed the spot seems to have happened in a fairly straightforward (and cheap) way.
According to Insider, when Smiley and De La Rosa were dating the happy couple attended a charity auction. One of the items up for grabs was a brief appearance on an unnamed reality television show. Smiley nabbed the opportunity for $2,500. The show turned out to be RHOC, and according to De La Rosa, she went along with it for his sake.
“It was something that he wanted to do,” she said when she appeared on the 100th episode special. “We were engaged and as corny as it sounds, I did it for love.”
While her sacrifice for love may not have worked out the way she hoped, one of her castmates is very happy about its results.
Slade Smiley and Gretchen Rossi today
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Thank you Skylar for choosing me to be your Mommy! I couldn’t have asked for a more special gift then you! It was such a special 1st Mother’s Day with my little princess and the love of my life @sladesmileyofficial ❤️ I felt so loved by not only these two today but by so many friends and family. Thank you to everyone who reached out and sent me special messages, to everyone who sent such thoughtful gifts and so many incredible flowers! 🙏🏻❤️ Felt soo beyond blessed and extra special today….so thank you to all! ❤️😍 Sending all those incredible Mothers out there, (including my own) so much love and light 💋swipe left 👈🏻
Smiley may have worked his way through multiple RHOC cast members before connecting with Rossi, but the couple seems to have found a lasting relationship. Yahoo reports that in February of this year, they celebrated 11 years together. Although they’re still not married despite being engaged for seven years, they are bonded by something pretty special.
After multiple rounds of IVF, the couple welcomed a daughter a little over a year ago. The little girl is named Skylar Gray, and the besotted parents couldn’t be happier to have added her to their family.
Although they have never stopped planning to be married someday, a wedding has never made it to the top of their list of priorities. The financial burden of their fertility treatments has forced them to push back their plans even further, but they don’t seem too worried about the delay. They expect to be married eventually, and right now they’re busy enjoying being parents together.
When Smiley bid on that mystery guest appearance on a reality show all those years ago, he probably didn’t expect how much his donation would also give him a redemption arc. From serial dating bad boy to devoted partner and dad, it’s safe to say Smiley got his money’s worth.
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