Woman becomes sister’s surrogate – but her boyfriend is raging after finding out
5th May 2022

A woman became her sister's surrogate at the age of 20, but when her boyfriend found out he wasn't happy.

The female wanted to give her sibling, who had fertility issues, the ultimate gift in order for her to start a family.

Her sister had suffered several miscarriages so she stepped up to be her surrogate, carrying a baby who is now seven-years-old.

She claims she feels no maternal feelings towards her niece and regards herself as simply the "handy oven for that bun".

Since it was ages ago, she never thought to tell her now-boyfriend who was left surprised at old snaps of her with a pregnant belly.

The couple has been together for around two and a half years, and once things got serious she said she didn't want kids.

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Now in a Reddit post, she explained how her boyfriend, who wants kids, could live without them after they talked it over.

But during her dad's birthday party, when her family dug out some old photos, he saw her heavily pregnant leaving him confused.

Her boyfriend initially assumed she had a child she had given up for adoption, until she explained the situation.

He was left unpleased, but she didn't think it should matter as it was a long time ago.

The poster wrote: "When we left he told me I should have told him and said how it wasn't fair that I'd been willing to give my sister a child but wouldn't even consider having one with him.

"I got upset as there is a big difference between carrying a child and raising a child and told him as much. I told him I was sorry for not telling him but I honestly hadn't felt it was his business as it had been years before we got together.

"I then reminded him how he had been the one to say he could live without children as I'd warned him long ago. He is still upset with me, I honestly didn't think I did anything wrong here."

Although Reddit users didn't think she had done anything wrong, some advised her to rethink the relationship going forward.

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One said: "He reacted on a big scale, and that is understandable, but he is basically saying 'you had a baby for them, you should be willing to have one for me, too!' which is not cute.

"You both made the wishful mistake of thinking that he could just be okay without kids when you both know he wants them. He is not okay with it, and if you don't have kids, he will resent you.

"If you do choose to have kids for him, you will resent him and possibly also the kids. Please think this through carefully."

Another wrote: "He is either lying to you or lying to himself and one of these will come to light 'too late' and it will be an even bigger issue then."

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