My husband has never made love to me properly — he rushes to ‘get the job done’ – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of not ever having an orgasm I talked to my husband about it and he does now make the effort.

I thought we were on the same page about it but he always appears in a rush to “get the job done” so he can then move on to his turn, for me to do stuff to him.

We’re in our forties but he’s never bothered about having real intimacy, making love to me properly. It’s mechanical, unsexy and a real turn-off. When I try talking to him about it, he claims I put too much pressure on him to perform and makes out how it is all my fault. The rest of our ­marriage is pretty good.

DEIDRE SAYS: Tell your husband you are going to innovate and once a week you are going to give each other a slow massage.

Give him one first to give him the idea. Massaging you should help him get the feel of being more touchy-feely.

My e-leaflet Massage For Couples explains more.

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