DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE we got married, my husband has completely gone off sex with me.
Now he says we might not be sexually compatible. I feel so lonely and unloved.
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We have been married for eight months.
I am 30 and he is 34. Sex was good before we tied the knot, although we didn’t live together.
We would end up in bed every time we saw each other and often have sex in the morning as well as at night.
But it’s now been three months since we made love at all.
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Nothing I do gets him in the mood. I’ve tried sexy underwear, coming on to him, even sex toys.
I don’t want to be in a celibate marriage, and I’m scared he’ll stray.
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s common for couples to have less sex once they live together.
But you haven’t been married for long, and your sex life has changed significantly so there clearly is an issue.
Talk to him and ask him to be honest, so you can deal with this together.
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