I'm putting off having sex with my girlfriend because I worry I won't be any good at it
17th December 2018

I’m in a new relationship with this great girl but I’m already worrying about my performance.

I would love to have sex with her and I am looking forward to it, even though I don’t want to rush things.

We’ve only been speaking to one another for a couple of weeks, and have only been out a few times, but it’s clear we’re attracted to each other.

I’m 23 and my girlfriend’s 22.

How long should I wait before hinting at sex?

DEIDRE SAYS: Try to stop worrying. Putting pressure on yourself will only make the problem worse.

The best sex is almost always within a caring relationship, so gradually build physical closeness until sex feels natural. Admit you’re nervous – she probably is too.

My e-leaflet Want To Last Longer might prove useful.


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