DEAR DEIDRE: IT’S not just a back injury my Pilates teacher has been helping me with – she has also treated me to mind-blowing sex.
We have been sneaking around for six months and I’m totally smitten with her.
I am a 41-year-old woman and I work in HR. I knew there was something special between us from my first session.
Our eyes locked on each other as I walked in the studio.
She paid me lots of attention throughout that first lesson and kept manually repositioning me when my movements weren’t quite right.
There were eight others in the class but the chemistry was so strong between us, they might as well have been invisible.
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I went back the next week and this time, she asked me to stay at the end. When everyone filed out she said, “I’m sorry. I feel there’s a real connection between us.
“I’ve never felt like this before. I’m married.” I assured her I felt it too and we decided to go for a drink together.
She told me she is 38 and has been married for four years.
After a bottle of wine in town, we walked out of the bar and down an alley where we had an amazing kiss.
I then asked her if she would give me private lessons and she now comes to my flat twice a week.
She teaches me and then we go to bed. Time permitting, we cook a meal and hang out.
The sex is amazing. She’s kind, considerate, and we both have amazing orgasms.
She says she has never had that with her husband. I know she is not likely to leave him for me but every opportunity we get, we are together. I can’t resist her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If this is a fling for her and you are developing feelings, you are going to get hurt.
It’s exactly the same as if you were with a married man.
She is having her cake and eating it too – having sex with you, then leaving you to go home to her husband.
If a long-lasting relationship is what you want, find a quiet moment to talk to her and ask where all this is heading.
Explain how you’re feeling about everything.
If she has no intentions of leaving her husband, my support pack Your Lover Not Free may help you to make sense of it all and decide whether you are really happy to be used like this.
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